Traits that Men Look for in a Woman/Girlfriend

Friday, March 14th, 2008 @ 1:42PM

Traits that Guys look for in Gals....

We talked about this today....we learn together.

HERE ARE TRAITS THAT MEN LOOK FOR IN
THEIR SPECIAL LADIES.....IN MY OPINION......

Ladies, you have to have A LOT more than just physical attraction to keep a guy interested in you over time.  Here are some traits that men look for in their girlfriends . . .

INDEPENDENCE.  This means no mooching money . . . not constantly craving attention . . . and just overall not being a pampered, spoiled brat.  You also have to have a life OUTSIDE of the relationship.  Guys prefer women who can stand on their own. Bring something to the party....

INTELLIGENCE.  That whole airhead routine gets old . . . REALLY fast.  Don’t hide how smart you are.  If your intelligence scares him away, then he probably wasn’t worth it anyway, right?

YOU RESPECT HIM.  Don’t constantly criticize the mistakes he makes or try to win EVERY SINGLE argument.  You should avoid embarrassing him in public and always wait to talk about whatever issues you may have with him in private.  Give your dude a little credit for crying out loud!

YOU GET ALONG WITH HIS FRIENDS AND FAMILY.  Honestly, how far do you think the relationship will go if his family and friends completely DESPISE you?  This is really important to a lot of guys, so you really need to try to get along with them.  However, they don’t have to be best friends with your friends.

AS FAR AS APPEARANCE......Put in an effort.  We are not perfect and we don’t expect perfection--But, we do expect an effort.......

Also, A GOOD SOUL!!
Thank you, America!

I am sure there are more...but, this is a nice start!
Keith